How Do I Move Past This?
Ask Bishop Sin: How Do I Move Past This?
I find myself longing for something better. My boyfriend can’t hold a steady job and is trying to get into the air force. We have been together for 2 years and I cant seem to see why. He snuck off to see some girl behind my back, although he denies sex with her he took a picture with her that looks like he was in pure bliss. He can be insensitive and disrespectful. We have been in so many arguments. I recently moved back in with a parent so I could save money and finish school. Now that he can’t be with me everyday I know my own paranoia is going to take over…HELP!!!
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How do I move on,
If I sent you a box of crap (actual crap dog, cow, horse etc) in the mail would you keep it in your house and let it smell up the place or would you through it out side in the trash?
He is that box of crap the more of his crap that you put up with the more crap he will bring. You have a good head on your shoulders because you point out his faults and you even question yourself for being with him. Imagine how things would be if you became pregnant by him and how that would affect the rest of your life. If my woman had snuck off to see some dude, she better have sex with him because when she comes back I don’t care what she says because in my mind if she risked what we had for your sneak-away I hope she got all you could of of it.
You’ve moved back home GREAT now just start distancing yourself from this dude, why do you tolerate his behavior and actions? Work on yourself, finish school, workout get in shape find something to do in your spare time so you won’t be sitting around wondering what “Mr. Wonderful” is doing.
Something to think about 
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